Notes to self:
If someone tells me they feel safe quitting smoking around me because they feel they are safe being bitchy with me, as opposed to being that way at work with clients , instead of taking it as a compliment, listen to the inner worry ... say : AM I A PUNCHING BAG NOW??
In a first date, if the guy tries to undermine my confidence / is provocative / laughs at me...... instead of analyzing his mediocre psyche and thinking he is attacking because his ego feel threatened by the idea of me rejecting him ...... : Excuse yourself (Saturn is in Libra afterall) and leave, never look back, never second guess what could have happened if only you would have made him feel accepted enough for him to not have feel he has to be such a dick. Dicks WILL be dicks. (what a great title for a Garfunkul and Oates song)
If you happen to find yourself in a situation where something surprises you by making you feel humiliated, your body tenses up, and you feel something is wrong, don't stick around trying to understand it better or prove yourself: LEAVE. Think about it later, if you must at all.
Always remember your inner child needs your protection. I am my own mother. I teach myself how to love and protect myself.
Time and experience have proven that if i am not aware of my emotions alot of misunderstandings follow.
Don´t let your guards down . Its too soon. But don't be bitter about it. That's just reality. People are separate entities. There is a protocol to relationships.
Don't take it as a compliment when someone says they feel soooo comfortable with you. You're not their therapist, are you? This is NOT a good sign.
Scorpios inspire me, they are defense and attack experts, and it would come really handy for a vulnerable pisces like me to absorve some of that energy.
This first chapter of Saturn in Libra has been hitting me like a ton of bricks. But i feel i will come out of it much stronger. How has it been for you?
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A bit confusing wording at first paragraphs but I got the point.
I think every good person gets those kind of dilemas in life as we are by nature helpful and friendly to everyone.
It is quite true, I find myself often "dropping" people because they are just negative and the relation is destructive instead of constructive. If you do that often you'll end up with fewer friends but much better quality of life and awesome friendships.
Learning to be our best friend is a must. I've been doing that since I was young, out of need since I had no friends and my family was aggressive towards me. That includes beating up, public humiliation and telling me I'm worthless and will never get anywhere in life.
I guess when your self-esteem is ubber-low you need something to compensate. Being your own best friend is a good way of doing just that.
It is also important to distinguish between people who are sincere and mean good even though they might hurt us unintentionaly and people who don't give a shit about us and just want a punching bag. As someone said, a good friend is the one who tells you things you don't want to hear. Not just the good things.. :)
Uhm forgot to leave a kiss in my last post.. and a big hug! *****
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