tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post2539848167024156084..comments2023-04-05T13:48:56.767+01:00Comments on Note to Self: Lead the WayViolethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09557787754804697317noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post-79529962297263121122008-04-22T02:27:00.000+01:002008-04-22T02:27:00.000+01:00He has a close nit group of friends that have been...He has a close nit group of friends that have been together for years, and he will be accross the world soon...so things will have to change.<BR/><BR/>I have a friend that had saturn in the 11th last year and she was in the azores while all her friends were in lisbon and other places for school or work, that's how it manifested for her. For him, he'll be the one to leave.Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557787754804697317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post-59982591164978214922008-04-22T01:58:00.000+01:002008-04-22T01:58:00.000+01:00Oh that's a tragic view of things. I think he'll p...Oh that's a tragic view of things. I think he'll probably lose false-friends,not the important ones. Or maybe his relationships with friends will mature greatly. :)<BR/><BR/>Yes, I meant in the long run because I got the impression that it was really important to you to find a place that is nice for someone to grow up in. That was the main vibe I got from your post.;)Devil Moodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083722657651175729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post-14627833603412573812008-04-22T01:50:00.000+01:002008-04-22T01:50:00.000+01:00By wider perspective you mean thinking in the long...By wider perspective you mean thinking in the long run?<BR/><BR/>I'm not thinking in the long run actually, just where I need to be in the next 3 years.. the only important thing is to be close to where I could work and study and have fun. But that fits lots of places. Ideally it would also be the perfect place to buy a house and have a baby too, but that is long run. <BR/>Sometimes going on a whim is the best thing to do... i'm finding we might end up exatcly where my whim wanted. We'll see.<BR/>It's no use being afraid of stuff.choosing out of fear will only bring unhappiness. <BR/>Maybe you'll visit me wherever I end up =) I'll miss having friends over at my house. 11th house moon. My boyfriend will be having saturn in the 11th starting next year.. so we might not make alot of friends there easily. Or we will but he will miss his.Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557787754804697317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post-82735155932853230082008-04-21T18:37:00.000+01:002008-04-21T18:37:00.000+01:00ha, dont get lost in the wider perspective - said ...ha, dont get lost in the wider perspective - said the Sagittarius!Devil Moodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083722657651175729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21895342.post-7088609903413318952008-04-21T18:36:00.000+01:002008-04-21T18:36:00.000+01:00I can't imagine what I'd be like if I were to pick...I can't imagine what I'd be like if I were to pick a new place to live. The World is so big, I wouldn't know what was more important and I'd probably move to a place just because I dreamt of it.<BR/>Like you said, you need to know what you want but that's not easy at all, I find! Particularly since you're already considering the long-run. Sometimes people just move on a whim and think: we'll see, we'll stay for a year...<BR/>But I think it's great that you have a wider perspective. Just don't get lost in it ;)Devil Moodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083722657651175729noreply@blogger.com